Tuesday, April 14, 2026
The tulips in my yard have already lived and died (and ten other random facts)
Monday, April 13, 2026
The Spring Break Rundown
Today my kids went back to school after spring break. We didn't have any big plans for the week (except for Daisy who got to go on a school trip ). We stuck around close to home and had a lot of appointments. We made up for our lack of adventure by eating out way too much, Here are some of the events of spring break 2026:
-Went to Disneyland (Daisy)
-Celebrated Easter and listened to General Conference
-Went birthday shopping (Eva)
-Slept over and Grandma and Grandpa's house (Eva)
-Went to a trampoline park (all the girls)
-Went to another trampoline park (Eva)
-Went to see the new Mario movie
-Had dentist appointments (the girls and me)
-Worked (Daisy and me)
-Went to Phantom of the Opera (Scotty and me)
-Had a hair appointment (Daisy)
-Went to the zoo
-Went to Daisy's best friend's mission call opening
-Went to a baptism
-Had Game Night
-Slept in a tent for a week (Eva)
-Had a family birthday party for Eva
Our kids tend to have breakdowns right before going back to school, and they were right on schedule for Sunday night at 7:00. All of a sudden everyone needed to shower and do homework, and all hell broke lose as each girl entered crisis mode simultaneously.
Every time.
EVERY
DANG
TIME!
Sunday, April 12, 2026
Easter 2026
Sunday, April 5, 2026
Sunday Sentiments: Jesus the Christ
In 2020, I set (and met) the goal to read Jesus the Christ by James E. Talmage.
As Easter approached, I went back through my notes and highlights from Jesus the Christ to see what stood out to me about Christ’s character during that reading; specifically His attributes, His behavior, and the way He treated* others.
(Let me just interject a plug here for the digital resources on the Gospel Library app. There are definitely some kinks (I submit feedback all the time), but I really love the ease of marking and adding notes as I study. I enjoy going back and reading the thoughts and ideas I jotted down during previous study sessions, and I often copy and paste quotes from Conferences and other teachings into my scriptures. It's just a whole lot of fun! Plus, you can use all sorts of colors and make things pretty!)
Here are some of the things I marked in the book (I’ll include the chapters where the quotes are from. Unfortunately, the digital copy doesn’t show the page numbers - I'll submit feedback):
Christ had the attributes of God and man and met the qualifications to be the Redeemer.
Jesus Christ was the only Being suited to the requirements of the great sacrifice:
1—As the one and only sinless Man;
2—As the Only Begotten of the Father and therefore the only Being born to earth possessing in their fulness the attributes of both Godhood and manhood;
3—As the One who had been chosen in the heavens and foreordained to this service… (chapter 3)
These attributes are what made Him eligible to provide the Atonement for us.
He gave His life for us willingly.
It’s important to understand that Jesus Christ had a choice. Our omniscient God knew the choice that Christ would make, but God’s knowledge of that choice doesn’t diminish the agency that was involved. The Savior willingly died for our sins.
Christ had to come to earth to obtain a physical body. As a resurrected being, He now has all the essential characteristics of the Father.…He voluntarily surrendered His life, and permitted His own decease through an act of will. Born of a mortal mother He inherited the capacity to die; begotten by an immortal Sire He possessed as a heritage the power to withstand death indefinitely (chapter 3).
During that antemortal period there was essential difference between the Father and the Son, in that the former had already passed through the experiences of mortal life, including death and resurrection, and was therefore a Being possessed of a perfect, immortalized body of flesh and bones, while the Son was yet unembodied. Through His death and subsequent resurrection Jesus the Christ is today a Being like unto the Father in all essential characteristics (chapter 4).
I don’t know if we realize that having a body makes us more like God. It’s no wonder Satan would have us abuse our bodies, neglect them, and hate them. Even our Savior had to take this step of receiving a body to become more like the Father. We are truly blessed to have mortal tabernacles.
Christ’s realization that He was the chosen and foreordained Messiah came to Him gradually. As shown by His words to His mother on the occasion of the memorable interview with the doctors in the temple courts, He knew, when but a Boy of twelve years, that in a particular and personal sense He was the Son of God; yet it is evident that a comprehension of the full purport of His earthly mission developed within Him only as He progressed step by step in wisdom. His acknowledgment by the Father, and the continued companionship of the Holy Ghost, opened His soul to the glorious fact of His divinity (chapter 10).
Our Lord was sinless yet peccable; He had the capacity, the ability to sin had He willed so to do… The writer of the epistle to the Hebrews expressly taught that Christ was peccable, in that He was tempted “in all points” as are the rest of mankind (chapter 10).
In recounting Christ’s calming of the sea, Talmage wrote:
Jesus found a resting place near the stern of the ship and soon fell asleep. A great storm arose; and still He slept. The circumstance is instructive as it evidences at once the reality of the physical attributes of Christ, and the healthy, normal condition of His body. He was subject to fatigue and bodily exhaustion from other causes, as are all men; without food He grew hungry; without drink He thirsted; by labor He became weary. The fact that after a day of strenuous effort He could calmly sleep, even amidst the turmoil of a tempest, indicates an unimpaired nervous system and a good state of health. Nowhere do we find record of Jesus having been ill. He lived according to the laws of health, yet never allowed the body to rule the spirit; and His daily activities, which were of a kind to make heavy demands on both physical and mental energy, were met with no symptoms of nervous collapse nor of functional disturbance. Sleep after toil is natural and necessary. The day’s work done, Jesus slept (chapter 20).
A blind man was brought, and Jesus was asked to touch him. He took the sightless one by the hand, led him outside the town, applied saliva to his eyes, laid hands upon him in a ministration, and asked him if he could see. The man answered that he saw dimly, but was unable to distinguish men from trees. Applying His hands to the man’s eyes, Jesus told him to look up; the man did so and saw clearly… This miracle presents the unique feature of Jesus healing a person by stages; the result of the first ministration was but a partial recovery (chapter 22).
After Jesus fasted for 40 days and 40 nights, Satan tempted Him to use His power to obtain food, but He would not. In fact:
… we find no instance of a miracle wrought by the Lord for personal gain or relief of His own need, however pressing (chapter 24).
I confess I have a very imperfect relationship with Jesus Christ. There's a lot I don't understand about His sacrifice and the necessity for a Savior. But I am ever learning and striving for greater knowledge of spiritual things. I look forward to studying more about our Redeemer this year.
*I’ve really struggled with tense in this post. I’ve gone back and forth between present tense and past tense. Mortality and eternity make for difficult grammar choices! Haha!
Friday, April 3, 2026
Friends in All Places
Sometimes your friends aren’t who you thought they’d be…
Sometimes it’s your third cousin you’d never heard of who tried to start a family blog and found you because you had already taken the URL she wanted (with the family name), and now, twenty years later, you routinely text each other memes about dinosaurs and photos of everything growing in your garden.
Sometimes it’s a girl from your church congregation that you used to think was so mean, you even wrote about how mean she was in your journal!
Sometimes it’s your step-mom’s former co-worker that ended up being your co-worker, and you quit your jobs at the same time to have babies, and now you lend her your muffin pans, and she buys you Tootsie Rolls.
Sometimes it’s the penpal in Texas that you were randomly assigned to by a paid service in a teen magazine, and you’ve kept in touch since you were 11 year-old JTT fanatics but have never met in person.
Sometimes it’s the mom of a guy you went to high school with.
Sometimes it’s the girl you didn’t get along with when you were teenagers but you relate to very well now that you’re both grown up and over yourselves.
Sometimes it’s the girl that sat behind you in 7th grade math who was obsessed with Leonardo DiCaprio, and she was so funny you just couldn’t ever let her go (and you had lunch with her yesterday, in fact, and took turns casually walking through the restaurant to see how may old people were there) (a shocking amount - hence the walks).
Sometimes it’s the girl you had dance class with when you were three years old, and you grew up and both married that dance teacher’s nephews.
Sometimes it’s the mom of your daughter’s ex-boyfriend… who also happens to be the mom of a girl your son spent some time smooching on the side during his senior year of high school.
__________
One thing that adulthood has offered me is a wider range of friendship possibilities. I'm still in touch with friends from childhood, but now I have friends of all ages and life experiences. Sometimes, the way I make friends might be a little unusual (read about one case here), but hey! It works!
Thursday, April 2, 2026
Sunday Sentiments: Teachings of the Living Prophets
We had a busy weekend, and I wasn’t able to get this post finished on Sunday. I wanted to make sure I posted it before General Conference, so here are my Sunday thoughts… on Thursday…
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When I was finishing my degree, I took a class called Teachings of the Living Prophets. In that class, I came to better understand that the primary role of the prophet and the apostles is to testify of Jesus Christ.
Since taking that class, I listen more carefully to what the prophets and apostles say about Jesus Christ. Typically at the close of their Conference addresses, they will make a final statement about Jesus Christ. Sometimes when I go back and study the most recent Conference talks, I will flip through the Liahona (or, more likely, scroll through my phone) and read the closing paragraph from each apostle looking for their witness of Christ while keeping in mind that they must have this testimony with them as if they have seen with their eyes and heard with their ears. Here are what a few of them said in our last General Conference:
“I bear testimony of Jesus Christ, who is the Prince of Peace, the Son of the living God.” -Elder Stevenson
“Jesus Christ is the Author and Finisher of our faith, writing countless new chapters with us. He is the Beginning and the End—the end of our shame and suffering and the beginning of a new life in Him, letting us receive His grace, leave the past behind, and begin again with a new dawn, as many times as we need.” -Elder Kearon
“I testify of the love, the mercy, and the grace of our Savior and Redeemer. He lives. We are His; we are children of the covenant. As we believe in Him, follow Him, and trust Him, He will lift us from our sorrows and our sins. Then, beyond this mortal life, in our Father’s house, we will live with Him forever and ever.” -Elder Andersen
“I testify that Jesus Christ is the Son of God. He is our strength, our Redeemer, our hope. If we trust Him, He will make our spiritual power equal to every trial we are called to bear.” -President Eyring
“I joyfully witness that Jesus Christ is our living Savior.” -Elder Bednar
“I bear my sure and certain witness that Jesus Christ lives and because of His Atonement, we can be one with Him.” -Elder Cook
“He lives. I absolutely know it. He loves you. He gave His life for you. He pleads with you to come unto the Father through Him.” -Elder Renlund
“I testify of the Lord Jesus Christ, who is the Only Begotten Son of God, our Eternal Father.”-President Oaks
Sometimes Conference is hard for me because I listen with the ears of the world, but there are a few things I’ve started doing to help keep my heart in the right place:
-Listen with faith instead of fear.
-Focus on sparks of truth - a little nudges from the Holy Ghost that say, “You know this is true!”
-Listen for the things I’m already doing right rather than the things I’m doing wrong (pay attention to inspiration instead of guilt).
-Focus on how the speakers witness of Christ.
-Take a break from social media
In a few days, the apostles will bear witness again - fulfilling their primary responsibility to testify of Jesus Christ. I look forward to feeling the Spirit as I hear snippets of truth and reassurance.
Wednesday, April 1, 2026
Currently (April 2026 Edition)
Reading:
Wearing: an Aerosmith shirt and black leggings with ankle socks. Watch out, Gen Z! This old lady's ankles are showing!
Eating: leftovers from our April Fool's dinner.
Watching: Hamnet. I've been watching it for two weeks now. Why can I watch an entire season of a TV show in one day but only ten minutes of a movie at a time?
Singing: "Love Somebody" by Maroon 5.
Buying: Easter stuff for the kids.
Annoyed by: the two kids sitting on the couch with me currently who won't stop putting their feet on each other.
Playing:
We got this one for ourselves for Valentine's Day, and we just had our first run through.
Listening to:
Trying: fish oil supplements. My eye doctor recommended that I take fish oil to help with my dry eyes. I’ve always avoided fish oil because people have told me it smells bad in your breath and can even make your skin smell. But I bought some “burpless” fish oil, and so far I haven’t had any issues with smells. I told Scotty if I ever smell “fishy” he needs to let me know.
Laughing about: the fidget intestines I saw at Smith & Edwards yesterday.
Craving: McDonald's breakfast.
Suffering from: sore feet. I have a really boring post underway in which I tell you all about my neuropathy. Look forward to that (if it ever makes it to publishing).
Procrastinating: picking up prescriptions, ordering Daisy's contacts, paying Nicky's PT bills from when he injured his leg a year ago, and most forms of household cleaning (though I did scrub the toilet yesterday).
Loving: seeing people get pulled over for running red lights. It’s gotten out of hand around here. Last week there was a death nearby due to someone running a red light. Occasionally the police will monitor certain intersections and pull people over, and I’m always glad to see it.
Feeling: tired. I got sick twice in a row a few weeks ago, and I’ve had very little energy since. I don’t know if I have some lingering fatigue from being sick, or if it’s something else, but this girl is tired!
Grateful for: stability.










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