Play
The other day I did a thorough clean-out of Nicky's room while he was at school. I'm pleased to report that his room still has all of the components I reflected on in this post. He is still enveloped in the innocence of childhood. Junior high hasn't ruined him yet!
While I was cleaning his room, I thought about the way he currently plays and how that has evolved as he's gotten older. I thought I'd take this time to jot down some of the ways each of my kids "play" right now:
Nicky - age 12.8
-enjoys building with Legos. He will often build little contraptions like a bow and arrow or a pinball machine. Over the summer I printed some Lego challenge cards off the internet. I would hand him one, and then he would go down to his room to build something and then come show me. Here is his "something from a movie:"
Paul Blart on a Segway
-is really into trick shots, so he will set up trick shot challenges involving incessant bottle flipping or elaborate ball tossing
-loves making things out of items from the recycle bin. He's actually very clever. He has made several skee ball, air hockey, and pinball games.
-enjoys board games and is actually pretty good at them
-never asks to have friends over
-likes to listen to Disney play lists while he plays
-enjoys a few video games - a little Minecraft and a little Mario - but is very good about playing in moderation (I think Zoe might be the one I have to regulate video games for)
Daisy - age 10
-does a lot of arts and crafts
-has never really been into dolls, but out of the blue, wanted a doll for her birthday
-is more possessive of than actually interested in using her toys
-asks for friends to come over constantly and does not like to play alone
-always wants to have music from Descendants blasting while she is playing in her room
Zoe - age 6.9 & Eva - age 4
-have very similar playing habits, so I figured I'd group them together. They are my children closest in age
-ask to play with friends all the time
-like to play "store" and constantly gather up items and line them on the stairs or couch like a store display. Likewise, they will play "library" and make book displays
-drag toys all over the house
-love to play dress up and go through several costume changes in any given session
-want to decorate everything
-love stuffed animals and play with them more than any other toys
-use hair accessories for play. The stuffed animals always have scrunchies around their necks for collars and bows clipped on their ears
-are just really, really messy. They group toys together in really random ways while they play (why do you need a backpack with five pieces of play food, three Hot Wheels cars, a hairbrush, a bag of almonds, two Beanie Boos, a sheet of stickers, and seven pairs of your underwear in it to play animal doctor?)
-enjoy playing house. Especially Eva. I love when friends come over, and I hear them say, "Wanna play house?"
Tea Party
Paisley is months away from not playing "the animal game" anymore with cosie. it breaks my little mama's heart!
ReplyDelete